🤢Catharsis ≠ Transformation

Sometimes, people think crying = better healing session.

Some therapists / healers measure their worth by their clients’ tears.

It’s a trap. Here’s why:

A. Personality matters

Logical people may cry less, but the reframe still works for them.

I’ve seen lasting positive changes with a single reframe.

B. Tears without context are useless

Crying is a great start.

But crying without reframe is a prison.

If there’s no new perspective, there’s no healing.

The client is just practicing being a victim.

The key is Reframing. After the release, shift how they see the world.

• Show them the perpetrator’s own hurt.
• Show them they’re just copying their parents.
• Show them they’re an adult who control their actions now.

See the emotions, then ensure there’s reframe.

Release without a reframe is just mental masturbation.